Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
430 episodes
The Good Girl Trap: Why So Many Women Never Feel Sexually Free
What if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all?What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"?In this eye-opening conversati...
Say This And Unleash Her Kinky Side! the Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet!
Almost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies.What you'll learn:
She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life
What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side?Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual comp...
How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset
The harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-mov...
How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex
She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix.Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 yea...
What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This
Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the rec...
Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)
Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explo...
5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)
Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud.This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never...
She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back
You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent.Vanessa Cushing — AASECT C...
The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms
In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense.M...
Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind
Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels li...
5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One
Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud.This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantas...
Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It
He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open.Interest in pegging among straight men is up...
How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life
82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it.If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you un...
She's Reading Smut Instead of Having Sex with You — Here's Why
She's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship.Romance is the fastest-growing categor...
Perimenopause Killed Her Orgasm — 5 Moves to Get It Back
A listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time."She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm chang...
Role Play 101: From Cringe to Craving
97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do.I'll be honest: role play has always g...
Squirting: 5 Moves That Get Her There!
Most men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does.This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men ...
Good Men, Bad Sex: Why Purity Culture Is Still in Your Bedroom (Even If You Left the Church)
You never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly...
How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System
You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference.In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her fi...
How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It
Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeli...
5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time
Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything.This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the...
The Alpha Male Script Is Killing Your Sex Life — This Is What She Actually Wants
Alpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has ...
Lost Your Erection? 5 Moves That Save the Whole Night
You went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse.Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode...
What Women Really Think About Your Balls — Men Take Note!
Nobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now.Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find a...
