Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
449 episodes
How to Fix a Dead Bedroom: A 31-Day Plan to Reignite Desire
Your sex life isn't broken, it's just gone quiet. And quiet is fixable.This week I'm handing you an actual plan: a 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, reconnect, and get curious again, no dramatic overhaul, no painful heart-to-heart...
Nipplegasm: How to Have an Orgasm From Nipple Play
Yes, nipple orgasms are real, and you can learn to have one.This week I'm breaking down the nipplegasm: a full orgasm, felt in the genitals, that starts entirely from nipple play. I had my first one through my own self-pleasure practice,...
How to Build a Dom/Sub Dynamic Into Everyday Life (No Cuffs Required)
Most people think dominance and submission means a dungeon full of gear, and they never get past the shopping list.This week I'm showing you the part that actually builds the heat. This is a foundational episode with power-exchange coupl...
20 Ways to Touch a Clit (& The One That Matters Most!)
Most people know exactly one way to touch a clit, and they run it into the ground.This week I'm giving you twenty. This is the third in my clitoral pleasure set, right alongside my fingering guide and my yoni massage guide, and now that ...
Cocks on Lockdown: How to Do Locktober (with Dominatrix Lucy)
Curious about male chastity but have no idea where to start? This one's your guide. My resident dominatrix Lucy is back, and for the first time she's on camera showing the gear, to walk us through Locktober: the month-long challenge of keeping ...
Male Chastity 101: Can You Handle the Cage? (Locktober)
What if the hottest thing he could do for you was not come?That's the whole dare of Locktober, and this week I'm walking you through male chastity from the ground up. It's one of the most misunderstood kinks out there, and also one of th...
One of You Wants Sex. One of You Doesn't. Here's How to Fix It
One of you wants sex. One of you doesn't. And somewhere along the way, that gap stopped being a difference and turned into a fight you keep having with your clothes on. Here's what nobody tells you: the gap was never the problem. It's the two s...
Pegging For Beginners: A Couple's Guide
Everybody assumes wanting this says something about who he is. It doesn't. He's got a prostate loaded with nerve endings — his own version of the spot everybody obsesses over in women — and it's been sitting there his whole life while he drove ...
What a Male Escort Knows About Her Desire That Most Men Don't
There are things women want in bed they'll never say out loud — not to their husband, not to their boyfriend, not to anyone who actually knows them. But they'll say them to George. Women pay him for his time, but really they're paying for somet...
How to Give Face Sitting So Good She Never Wants to Get Up | The Giver's Masterclass
Everybody assumes the person on top has all the power. And sure — she's up there, she's on the throne, she's in charge. But the partner flat on his back underneath? He's the reason she wants to climb up there again, and again, and again....
The Scent of a Woman: Everything You Should Know About Her Vagina
Almost every woman has wondered it in silence: Is my scent normal? Do I taste okay? Is something wrong with me down there? Almost none of us were ever given the information to answer — so we carry the worry straight into the bedroom, w...
Double Penetration: Everything You've Been Too Afraid to Ask
Sixty percent of people have fantasized about being filled two ways at once — and almost nobody says it out loud. This week, I'm changing that.This is your complete, no-shame beginner's guide to double penetration. I'm breaking down what...
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Surrender: The Secret to Her Best Orgasms (Why She Can't Let Go)
She holds it all together all day — the job, the kids, the house, everyone’s emotional weather. Then she gets into bed and still can’t stop managing. And orgasm requires the one thing she’s trained herself never to do: let go.Th...
5 Things Men Are Told About Sex That Are Killing Her Desire
There's an entire ocean of online content teaching men about sex and women — and a huge amount of it is written by people who have no idea what they're talking about. Today I'm grading five pieces of the worst advice men are being fed, and givi...
Cock Worship: The Bedroom Move That's Hot for BOTH of You
Everybody knows men want to be worshipped in bed. That's not news. The real question — the one nobody asks — is what's in it for the person doing the worshipping.Because done right, cock worship isn't a favor. It isn't service with a fak...
How to Give Her a Cervical Orgasm She'll Feel Everywhere
The cervical orgasm is often described as the deepest, most full-body climax a woman can experience — and it's the one the fewest people know how to reach. First studied in depth by researchers mapping how different kinds of stimulation affect ...
The Kinks Couple's Secretly Want & How to Actually Try Them
Every couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us th...
THE A-SPOT: HER DEEPEST ORGASM (AND HOW TO REACH IT)
The A-spot, or anterior fornix, is a deep erogenous zone on the front vaginal wall that many people have never learned about. First identified in clinical research in 1997, it's associated with increased natural lubrication, heightened arousal,...
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The Good Girl Trap: Why So Many Women Never Feel Sexually Free
What if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all?What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"?In this eye-opening conversati...
Say This And Unleash Her Kinky Side! the Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet!
Almost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies.What you'll learn:
She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life
What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side?Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual comp...
How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset
The harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-mov...
How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex
She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix.Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 yea...
What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This
Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the rec...
